Tuesday, October 2, 2012

A.S.S.U.M.P.T.I.O.N.S

Posted by Wan Nur Syazana Wan Mohamad Ariffin at 5:56 AM
You know what sucks? When one starts making assumptions about something you wrote on Facebook or tweeted. And the you starts making assumptions about that person's reactions. Then it will be strings of misunderstandings and you're caught in the middle of it. The power of assumption is destructive. Tension arises from it and it can ruin friendships built for years.

It gets a lot more worse when you're trying to fix it by being friendly as usual or perhaps pulling a pranks as you normally do. But your friend's reaction... she ignores you giving ambiguous answers. It is then you realized she's hurt by your statement even though it's not her you're talking about. You try not to care but then you just had to because she's your friend. But if it goes on like that for quite some time... I think everybody might get sick of it.

Why? Why would one care about the feelings of just one person and not the others. You tried. You tried to make things better but her attitudes just made that invisible line between you two even bigger. And do realized that your life does not revolve around that person. You have better things to attend to rather than just taking care of your friend's feelings.

I am pissed and tetiba rasa nak mengungkit. Not once have you celebrated my birthday in the past years! But i did yours almost every year. Maybe it's because whenever it is my birthday, we're always not together. But isn't that enough to prove our friendship? How can a simple misunderstood sentence ruin that? I should feel hurt the fact that I did not received even a slice of cake from you.... I might feel hurt this upcoming birthday of mine. But then again I don't care since birthdays are just dates to me and I hate celebrating them.

If you still decides to ignore me, I'll go back home this weekend. I just will not go out with. Might as well go and see my friend whom has the same birth month as me.

I am hurt by the way.

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Tuesday, October 2, 2012

A.S.S.U.M.P.T.I.O.N.S


You know what sucks? When one starts making assumptions about something you wrote on Facebook or tweeted. And the you starts making assumptions about that person's reactions. Then it will be strings of misunderstandings and you're caught in the middle of it. The power of assumption is destructive. Tension arises from it and it can ruin friendships built for years.

It gets a lot more worse when you're trying to fix it by being friendly as usual or perhaps pulling a pranks as you normally do. But your friend's reaction... she ignores you giving ambiguous answers. It is then you realized she's hurt by your statement even though it's not her you're talking about. You try not to care but then you just had to because she's your friend. But if it goes on like that for quite some time... I think everybody might get sick of it.

Why? Why would one care about the feelings of just one person and not the others. You tried. You tried to make things better but her attitudes just made that invisible line between you two even bigger. And do realized that your life does not revolve around that person. You have better things to attend to rather than just taking care of your friend's feelings.

I am pissed and tetiba rasa nak mengungkit. Not once have you celebrated my birthday in the past years! But i did yours almost every year. Maybe it's because whenever it is my birthday, we're always not together. But isn't that enough to prove our friendship? How can a simple misunderstood sentence ruin that? I should feel hurt the fact that I did not received even a slice of cake from you.... I might feel hurt this upcoming birthday of mine. But then again I don't care since birthdays are just dates to me and I hate celebrating them.

If you still decides to ignore me, I'll go back home this weekend. I just will not go out with. Might as well go and see my friend whom has the same birth month as me.

I am hurt by the way.

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